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The Coalition of Unpopular Parents

TELEVISION IS STEALING OUR CHILDREN!
 

By high school graduation, American children will have put in far more hours in front of the television than in the classroom. 54% of 2 to 12 year old children say they prefer spending time with television than with their fathers.
Ralph Nader, "CHILDREN FIRST!"

The television will feed your child millions of commercials, and their core values will be shaped by corporations grooming them to become good consumers.  Take back control of your child's youth!


   Imagine the following scene: An executive from New York City knocks on your door.  He has a troop of actors in a truck, he says, and lots of high-tech props.  He offers to bring these actors into your living room, and entertain your kids...  The actors will shoot and stab and maim one another.  The blood will flow.  He will come back and repeat these displays day after day.  All you have to do is let him in.
    Most parents would slam the door and call the police.  They would charge the man with attempted child abuse.  Yet, essentially this same transaction takes place every day in America.  We barely notice it because it happens through TV.
Television has done something new in human history.  It has given adults a way to bypass parents, enter the family living room and speak directly to the kids.  As a result, TV has become this nation's hidden education system. One of the worst things it teaches our kids is that violence is glamorous and cool and the way adults solve their problems.
    This has been a big problem almost since the beginning of the TV age.  But over the last decade, while the administration in Washington looked the other way, violence on TV escalated to record levels.  We all know that crime has many deep roots.  But is it a total coincidence that the kids who absorbed this deluge of bloodshed on the tube during the 80s are now the teenagers who are mimicking it on the streets of our cities?

     Senator Byron Dorgan, (D-ND)


    Television is unparalleled as a medium enabling corporations to reach and encase children in the world of products and ideas.  And television is the most pervasive form of family entertainment, widely watched by parents and integrated into family life.
    In terms of sheer hours alone, TV is by far the most powerful tool to separate children from parents -- intellectually, emotionally and in terms of values.  It should be no surprise that network executives, marketers and advertisers view television as providing direct access to children.  They know that it is virtually impossible for a parent to control and monitor all that children watch.  And children do watch a great deal.
    Network executives search for programming which will draw the largest child audience.  They search for programs with excitement, fun, action, violence and cool graphics, and programs based on popular toys.  These types of shows ensure "eyeballs" which can be sold to the advertisers.  Delivering children's audiences to advertisers is the goal of "free" television.  Little, if anything, appears on the major networks because of its educational and informational content.
    Play is how a child learns. That is why when children dress up in Mommy or Daddy's clothing, what they are really doing is trying to understand and learn about what it's like to be a grownup.  Traditionally, parents are a child's symbol of adulthood.  Just like when they pretend to be an adult they are learning about being adults, when they are violent in their play they are learning to be violent.  The television characters are more their role models than are the adult figures in their life.
These techniques (the advertisers use) draw children into the product-centered corporate world, the cumulative impact of which expands children's "wants" into things that they feel they "need."  Children are entertained by these commercials, and they come away convinced they need to buy "stuff."
    The average child witnesses more than 8,000 television murders by the time they finish elementary school and more than 200,000 acts of violence by the time they are 18 years old.
    One striking study on the violence-inducing effects of television violence was the 1991 "Long-Term Effects of Repeated Exposure to Media Violence in Childhood," by professors L. Rowell Huesman, Laurie Miller and Leonard Eron of the University of Michigan and Columbia University.  This 30-year study found a correlation in the amount of television a child watched with their propensity to engage in violent behavior.  It revealed that the male children who watched a lot of television violence had a higher rate of lived violence and that the pattern was consistent through their entire lives.  In 1973, Notel, a small town in Canada was finally able to receive television.  (The researchers) carefully studied the effects of the introduction of television into Notel, tracking a group of first and second graders for two years.  After the two years of television, the researchers found that the rates of physical aggression in these children increased by 160%.
    Of the two full months a year that children watch television, much of the content they see is sexually suggestive.  "Today's typical viewer sees about 10,000 scenes of suggested sexual intercourse, sexual comment, or innuendo during one year of average viewing," according to research by Robert Lichter, co-director of the Center for Media and Public Affairs.  Television content which emphasizes sex does present a picture of the world that young people feel they must live up to.  A recent survey of  750 children commissioned by Children Now found that 62 percent of young people believe television them to take part in sexual activity too soon.
Ralph Nader, "CHILDREN FIRST"


    "My Wife And Kids" is a family comedy with a libido.
    One episode last season involved Jr.'s obsession with self-gratification, spending hours in the bathroom with lingerie catalogs.  At one point he painfully pronounces to his family, "I think I broke it."  This season found the elder Michael taking Viagra to get aroused for a bedroom romp with Janet...  In anoter episode, Michael and Janet are so loud during their lovemaking that Kady calls the police, thinking her mother is being hurt.  Her father explains that he and ehr mother were playing the "roller-coaster game."  Kady asks if she threw up afterward.  "No, but she did ride it backwards," Michael replies.
    Definitely not Cosby territory.  "This show is about real life and real situations," executive producer and star Daman Wayans says.  Wayans, the father of four children, feels there is too much sensitivity about children watching sexual material on television.  "Children are living in a different kind of reality now," Wayans says.  "They can get porno on the Internet.  Kids already know this stuff, and parents need to talk to them according to their age.  And sexuality is important.  I'm 41, and sexuality is important to who I am."
Los Angeles Times Calendar Section, November 25, 2001


    Where are we initiated into the universe?  To answer we need to reflect on what our children experience over and over again, at night, in a setting similar to those children in the past who gathered in the caves and listened to the chant of the elders.  The cave has been replaced with the television room and the chant with the advertisement.  At the core of each show, driving the action, and determining whether or not the show will survive the season, is the advertisement.
    What is the effect on our children?  Before a child enters first grade science class, and before entering in any real way into our religious ceremonies, a child will have soaked in thirty thousand advertisements.  The time our teenagers spend absorbing ads is more than their total stay in high school.  None of us feels very good about this, but for the most part we just ignore it.  We learned to accept it so long ago we hardly ever think about it anymore.
    But imagine how different we would feel if we heard about a country that programmed its citizenry in its religious dogmas in such a manner.  In fact, it was just such accounts concerning the leaders of the former Soviet Union that outraged us for decades, the thought that they would take young children and subject them to brainwashing in Soviet lies, removing their natural feelings for their parents or for God or for the truth of history, and replacing these with the assumptions necessary for their dictatorship to continue its oppressive domination.

"A really efficient totalitarian state would be one in which the...political bosses control a population of slaves who do not have to be coerced, because they love their servitude.  To make them love it is the task assigned to ministries of propaganda, newspaper editors, and schoolteachers...as the slaves daydream under the influence of dope and movies and the radio."

Aldous Huxley, BRAVE NEW WORLD REVISITED (1958)

    What we need to confront is the power of the advertiser to promulgate a world-view that is based on dissatisfaction and craving.  On of the cliches for how to construct an ad captures the point succinctly:  "An ad's job is to make them unhappy with what they have."  As we soak it all up, it sinks down deep in our psyche.  And if this takes place in the adult soul, imagine how much more damage is done in the psyches of our children, which have none of our protective cynicisms but which draw in the ad's imagery and message as if they were coming from a trusted parent or teacher.
    Advertisers in the corporate world draw talent from the highest strata of IQs.  And our best artistic talent.  And any sports hero or movie star they want to buy.  Combining so much brain power and social status and the most penetrating psychological techniques, these teams of highly intelligent adults descend upon all of us, even upon children not yet in school, with the simple desire to create in us a dissatisfaction for our lives and a craving for yet another consumer product.
    Could even one child in the whole world endure that onslaught and come out intact?  Extremely doubtful.  Put it all together and you can see why it's no great mystery that consumerism has become the dominant world faith of every continent of the planet today.

Brian Swimme, "THE HIDDEN HEART OF THE COSMOS"


    "We can see what the media has done to overwhelm all of our sensory experiences with this recent tragedy (the September 11th bombings)," Brazelton says.  "Kids have been told up to now that STAR WARS and the things they see from Hollywood were just a fantasy.  Well, now they're a reality.  The media is something that I think parents need to learn to control."  That starts, he believes, with parents limiting children's exposure to TV and violent computer and video games, but also watching these mediums with their kids and talking about the content.

Interview with T. Berry Brazelton, LA PARENT MAGAZINE, December 2001


    Play is the very force of society and civilization, and a breakdown in ability to play will reflect in a breakdown of society.  Television replaced story telling in most homes, and...replaced family conversation in general.  With television on the scene, parents rarely play with children.  All sit around the box, and even playing among siblings has disappeared.  Thus no capacity for play and its internal imaging develops.  Nintendo does not and cannot replace imaginitive play.

Joseph Chilton Pearce, "EVOLUTION'S END"



"They'll have that repeated forty or fifty times more...'til at last the child's mind is these suggestions, and the sum of these suggestions is the child's mind."

 Aldous Huxley, BRAVE NEW WORLD